Teacher, may I?

When I was little, I played teacher ALL.THE.TIME. I loved it, and it really is amazing I didn’t become a teacher, and to be honest, it’s something I often regret. Momma used to tell the story of coming to pick me up at my precious Grandma Ruth’s house and as she walked up in the steps she heard Grandma saying “But, Tara, I don’t want to sit in the corner” and of course she was sitting in the corner anyway. Apparently she had been bad in my classroom.

 

Last night, I came in the bathroom while Emmy was in the tub and she had her toys all smushed down on one end of the tub and was “teaching” them. She would hold up a rubber duck and say “now, what’s this?” or take a little the large duck and say “is this tiny or big?”.

 

Then, this morning as we were driving to school, I said something about going to work and she said I didn’t work, that Daddy went to work. I asked her just what she thought I did each morning when I dropped her off at school???

 

“Cry.”

Mr. Sun Sun, Mr. Shining Sun, Please shine down on me!

And we have sunshine!!!! After three weeks of rain, we finally had an absolutely beautiful day yesterday. Emmy Ruth had so much fun, we spent almost all day outside. We walked to a catfish restaurant in our neighborhood and got ice-cream on the way back. When we passed the Beauty Shop, this man was laughing at Emmy’s ice cream face and I realized that it was Dr. Taylor, the doctor who delivered her!

 

Then we played in the back yard which is greatly in need of a mowing, thanks to the consistent rain! Emmy got to play with her sand and water table and kept getting mad when Luke and Anna would drink from it. She ended up taking her scooper and trying to give them water to drink. I love this picture of her in her car, honking away…

Disney on Ice

Friday night we went to see Disney on Ice with my three favorite two year olds. It was a collection of Cars, The Little Mermaid, The Lion King, and Tinkerbell and the kids loved it, and we loved watching them! Emmy Ruth, Solomon and Lucas are rarely all three together, in fact the last time they were all three together was when those people at Methodist Hospital tried to kill me the Jacksons and Salinases took care of Emmy when I was sick in April. Neall and Becca met us in front of the Forum with Sol and the first thing he said was hello to Lucas. They bonded over basketball on the way to our seats. Sol wasn’t quite sure waht was going to go on since he knows that Forum is where the Grizzlies play; he kept talking about basketball. Until Mickey appeared! The kids were mesmerized!

Of course, since AunTee was there, I was completely unnecessary to Emmy. She sat in her lap the entire time. Sol sat with me and unknowingly played with my bracelet the entire time, eyes completely on the show, and Lucas was enthralled. At one point, Sol got in Tara’s lap and I was afraid I had lost him forever, since apparently she has a uncanny effect on small children, but he came back to me shortly. Tara had asked him about Baby Rose so he had to get close to tell her all about her.

Everybody got a Disney hat for the show and they loved them. I hate I didn’t get a good picture of the three of them, I was trying to take a picture from my seat and it was not too easy.

Ah the bedtime drama

Of all the things I would do differently if I could, our sleeping arrangements top the list. I can list of all the reasons that I wanted Emmy Ruth in our bed and all the fabulous memories I have of just staring at her sleep, but I can't tell how many times I have been stabbed with guilt for having to break her of this now. We have gone all across the board in techniques for getting her in her bed, from just telling her good night and leaving, to staying until she goes to sleep and then leaving to trying to let her go to sleep and then putting her in her bed. She wakes up when we move her or she cries for two hours that she doesn't want to sleep in there or she just cries and cries and cries. More than once, I have felt like my mother when I cry out "I don't care where you go to sleep, JUST GO TO SLEEP!!!!!!!!!!!!"

Right now, you can't even get in her room because she has a Dora tent in there where she often sleeps. A few nights ago, when we checked on her at 3am, she was asleep on the hardwood floor, and I can't help but think of that poor child just calling her for her mommy and me not coming and her just giving up hope and collapsing on the floor with a broken heart, full of exhaustion. If she doesn't have the confidence to get into Harvard, I will blame it on this one incident that has marked her life forever.

She does have the confidence to tell us what to do though. There is a lot of bossiness going on here, and we are really trying to get this under control. I often tell her that she needs to ask me to do something nicely, so she says "get me some juice, nicely". Cute kid....

One step closer to her room.

She says she is going to sleep in her tent by our bed. It's one step
closer, literally, to her room!!!

My pillow!!!

After two hours of trying to get her to sleep in her bed and her
crying to get in our bed, Emmy just brought her blanket and pillow and
shut our door and got in our bed. She announced "Ive got my blankey
and my pillow!!". She just found Tigger and said "look who's here!!!"

Birthday cake

Last week, we had cake with Sol. He really liked it. There is no better present than watching them play!!! I can't wait until Rose Ryan is able to be right in the middle with them!

Happy Birthday, Solomon Clark!!!!

I can't believe our sweet boy turned two this month. We are so lucky to be part of such a special family!!

Who is this child?

Last night, I put Emmy Ruth in the corner in our room for the fiftieth time of the night and I went in the living room to tell John that he better go in there and save his child.

A little later, he was spraying cleaner on the wall and I was shocked to discover that he even knew where the cleaner was kept. I quickly realized that he was cleaning up the drawing that Emmy had made on the door frame while she was in time out!!!!!

Poor baby

Took this picture in Emmy Ruth's room the other day. Bet Baby is
squished in there. This must be worse than putting Baby in a corner.

Sleeping Beauty

Emmy fell asleep on the way home from Wynne today and I put her in her
bed when we arrived home. When I checked on her her she was sleeping
like this. I promise I didn't put her in bed this way!!!

Birthday cake

I think making your own birthday cake with a two year old is a lot
harder than just making it yourself. But making it with that two year
old is a whole lot sweeter.